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| My brother gets to go on cool walks with cubs an i was offered a place to help because i am a scout. just as i was about to say yes, my mum said no. i asked her why and she had no reason!!! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| mi2 Is there a biological reason for the unsettled child? A Developmental Paediatrician (not a psychologist) will ask for a full history of the child and can do the appropriate testing using high tech equipment that psychologists and most psychiatricts don't have. Once thats ruled out, then look at diet. Is the child intolerant or has an allegy towards some foods, additives, preservatives? A C-Peptide Test is excellant for finding out the results before venturing into any diet. If the diet prescribed by your GP or Dietician does'nt work, then the culprits may well be the form of or lack of decipline used upon that child. |
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| Years ago a local child care centre was broken into and badly trashed by a group of children. The youngest was 6, they used him to climb through a small window. The eldest was 10. Are the parents to blame? Yes. It was 3am when they did it and the parents answer? We didn't know where they were! What are kids that age doing out on the streets at that age any way. If a person has a child they are accepting resposibility for that new human until they reach adulthood. Someone has to be responsible. |
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| right on sister! it's nice to know there's someone else who knows what they are talking about, it's a lonely world sometimes. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| in my opinion,which is just that parents who haven't been able to break the cycle are to blame. They have their own chidren and use them as a vessel to try and fix what they blame their parents for. My advise to the world deal with your childhood traumas before you have kids. you're a parent and you can do whatever you want, you never have to resort to violence. take away priveledges, don't say you can have it back in a week because they aren't having to do anything to get them back other than wait. Tell them all priveledges will be returned when they can explain to you what it is they did wrong and apologize. They'll figure out that doing the wrong thing has consequences and it's easier just to not do anything wrong.And no one gets blamed for having a good child, and the child won't grow up blaming you for being a good parent. Thank God I had a good mother. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| who is saying the parents cant do anything, and who would be so thoughtless as to follow such foolish advise? the UN charter of human rights states that the parents have the primary right and responsability to raise and educate their children, not the government, the governments role comes into it if the parents fail their children | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| It is not always parents fault and it is not always children’s fault. Children even though they are small do have mind of their own. But adults should not fall into that trap of saying “ I am not allowed to discipline my child…government fault”. Parents are not told that they are not allowed to discipline their children ; they are just given some guidelines on disciplining children so that things do not go out of hand and children get physically or any other way, abused. There are many ways to discipline kids, you just have to find out which one works best for your child. A child is a child and if it is doing something wrong, sure needs discipline because in many instances children will do things because they can, they want, they are not advised otherwise…and so on…. Parents should be held responsible for their children’s behaviour if they are not doing anything to change that behaviour. Yes, parents should be held responsible for it. Depending on the age of the child, if the parents are in any way punished or inconvenienced by the child’s behaviour, child should be told and even appropriately punished (by the parent) so it does not think next time that doing wrong thing will not affect him but just his parents. Letting children get away without showing them that their negative actions are wrong and that wrong action always has a negative reaction, is the same as telling child that it can do what ever it likes and never worry about the consequences. |
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| Do you think it is right that parents should get the blame if thier children are causing havock for others? What can parents do to punish a child if parents are being told they cant do anything? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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