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| Thanks Bell, Marion and Mel, I appreciate your kind words. I'm feeling a bit better about things now, I know I've got nothing to feel guilty about, and things between us have been strained for a while. It's sad, but I'll be OK, better to just get on with things and wait until she calms down and realises she betrayed my trust. I'll know never to trust her with my secrets again!! And now I know I can deal with awful situations without resorting to old and nasty habits :o) I think you're right Mel, regarding the jealousy, I think she has enjoyed having me as her "poor, fat sister" I think it made her feel better about herself. Now that's all changing, I don't think she likes it. thanks again, it's lovely having ppl who understand. Renae |
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| Renae... I had the same thing happen to me. I told one of my dearest friends who then proceeded to tell anyone who would listen that I had been banded. She obviously was not a true friend, as a friend does not betray a trust. As for family, well you can't pick em. You have done nothing wrong except to confront and ask why she did it. Who knows why people seem to find it necessary to tell people that we are banded specifically after we have asked them to keep it to themselves... very odd. But I do feel a lot of it has to do with jealousy, the fact that we have taken control of our lives, and theirs may be out of control. That is my humble opinion anyway. Well done on controlling the old urges from bubbling to the surface when you needed comfort. I am sure you will sort it out with your sister... nothing worse than having issues with family members. Mel |
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| Sorry to hear about your sister's attitude Renae, I used to have a couple of friends like that. Note I say 'used to', strangley I don't seem to see them anymore. It's a bit different with a sibling though, can't exactly just shed them! No, you did nothing wrong but she's just turning everything against you and giving you a guilt trip. Some people have done that to me in the past. I'm better at saying No now, if fact one friend isn't talking to me at the moment because I said No to her! I'm fed up being a doormat! Good for you about not comfort eating, it's so easy to do. Hugs Marion |
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| Hi Renae, How horrible for you :( You trusted her to keep your secret and then she didn't, then when you confronted her she attacked you! A lot of people react to being confronted with their own wrong doing by attacking. It diverts the attention from what they did when they know full well they did the wrong thing, that way they don't have to deal with what they did. You've got every right to be upset. Congratulations for not turning to food over it. I hope you have a terrific week this week, that'll show her ;) |
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| Amazingmum5 (114.9/99.9) (15/8.2)(6.8 to lose) Annie15754 (Annie) (122/99) (23/2.0) (21.0 to lose) April (buckskinremi) (114/90) (24 to lose) Baileyandjacksmum (125/100) (25 to lose) Bell (lizzardbell) (100.6/75) (25/16.1) (8.9 to lose) Bj (newbj) (113/90)(23/3) (20 to lose) Carol (cassandra_4ice) (78.5/65) (13.5 to lose) Cat (fluffy puppie) (105/99)(6/2)(4 to lose! Woohoo) Chris (cmm191056) (123/99) (24 to lose) Colleen (colleenxxmarie) (105/80) (25/10) (15 to lose) Columbia.magenta (147.7/125) (22.7/9.6)(13.1 to lose) Deb (bluezbandit) (92.9/75) (21.8/0.8) (17.9 to lose) Delia (delia4au) (106.5/86.5) (20/10.3) (9.8 to lose) Erina (erina_h) (106.4/80) (26.4/9.4) (17 to lose) G (gregparkerhill) (137.1/109) (28 to lose) Gem (gemgotband) (87.6/70) (14.5/1.5) (13 to lose) Jan (Ruby4redshoes) (74/68) (6 to lose) Jen (jenized) (82.5/68) (14.5/0.5) (14.0 to lose) Kathy (bluesdky_skyeblue) (117.7/98.7) (20/1)(19 to lose) Katie (kaytie.lou78@ymail.com) (139/114)(25/2) (23 to lose) Kaznbrood (90.9/70) (20.9/6.5) (14.4 to lose) Kerri (kerri_lalala) (123/99) (121.2/1.8) (22.2 to lose) kez (angledeeva) (110/85) (25/4.9) (20.1 to lose) Kylie (kyliem66) (123/99) (24/2.7) (21.3 to lose) Leah (leahskinnygirl) (140/112) (28 to lose) Linda (lindaev) (76.4/68) (8.4/1.8) (6.6 to lose) Losingitbigtime (114/86) (28/5) (23 to lose) Marion (i_got_there) (68/58) (10/1.4) (8.6 to lose) Marg ( teenagersmum) (84/69)(15/0) (15 to lose) Relle (ayd.relle) (101.1/81.1) 17.6kilo yo go Renae (rmb2310) (113/85) (28/5.1) (22.9 to lose) S (flutterbygirl77) (97.6/77)(20.6/5.1)(15.5 to lose) San (mylastresort_2lose) (82.2/65) (17.2/2.3) (14.9 to lose) Sarah (sarahbelperio) (113.6/85) (28.6/2.2) (26.4 to lose) Sonia (impish73) (134.5/115) (19.5/1.3) (18.2 to lose) Sue (sweetheart_f_40) (95/80) (15 to lose) Silva (silvaren77) (103/75) (28 to lose Toni (toniwest) (99/79) (20/2) (18 to lose) |
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| Oh, I forgot.... there is a positive here.... Normally in a situation like that, I would turn to food or alcohol to comfort me..... but I have not :o) very pleased with that, it's proof to me that I have turned my life around... very happy about that. Cheers, Renae |
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| Hi All, No loss for me this week, in fact, I gained 100g but according to some ppl, that's just a pee, so I'm not going to adjust my stats.... I'll lose it next week. I've pretty much had the weekend from hell. I found out that my sister had been telling people (alot of people) about my op after I specifically asked her not to. I confronted her with it, not agressively, just told her I was upset and I'd like her to stop talking about me to others. Well, she did a major dummy spit and decided she doesn't want to be part of my life anymore. Please correct me if I am wrong...... but have I done anything wrong? Other than trust her to keep a secret that is. She has not said sorry to me, and doesn't seem to care that she has upset me. Sorry to be negative, It's really upset me, that's all. You're (we're) all doing such a great job - Keep up the good work. Cheers, Renae |
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| Marion, See your own, LOL! |
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| Bell see your email :O) | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Is that when the 27 weeks is up? I can't remember when this thread was started. I believe it was when I was 1 or 2 weeks post op. Now 8 weeks. Cat |
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| WOW 6 weeks already!!!!!!! Bring on the next 21 i say! I must say its been lovely since thursday and i have not PB'd once :) AND i am starting to lose weight nicely again! |
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| Hi Marion, Sounds like my hubby, couldn't care less what it costs, but you want me to close the buisness for HOW LONG!!! I'm going to go out on a limb here and say there are probably a hundred people here who would jump at the chance to meet up with you, lol! Myself included :) Ummmmm....if you could choose a date, if you want i'll 'announce' it as a get together on the sydney thread, which is long gone of the first pages and see if we can drum up a get together ~? Sydney people on here seem to have a bit of trouble getting together LOL! I gave up trying to org-ani-se them at least a year ago. Or i'll see if i still have your email and i'll contact you and see what we can come up with. 2 grand is a bit rich for a dunny, lol! |
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| Hi Bell, I was wondering if there were any Bandits who might be close by to the retreat. We have free days on the Sundays. We want to go into Sydney and do the Harbour Bridge climb. I was also thinking it might be nice to meet up with a few NSW Bandits. We arrive at the retreat May 11th and leave June 6th, then we fly to Brisbane for a few days before going home on June 10th. Marion |
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| Hehe No Linda we didn't win Lotto and it's not tax deductable (unless I can get my hubby to audit their books while we are there! LOL). The actual stay there is costing us $7,200, and that's in a room without an ensuite. The next grade room would have cost us $9,200! $2,000 extra to have your own bath/toilet! I asked Steve what I'm going to do if I get reflux and need to 'chuck' in the night? His answer?....lol...get a bucket!........rofl. We have both been at a bit of a low lately. We've both put on a few kgs and not been exercising as much as we should. When I saw this site I knew we'd love it there, so I persuaded Steve we needed to go there for 4 weeks. The money side didn't phase him at all but having 4 weeks off from the business did! Marion |
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| Wow Marion! You lucky woman! That resort isn't all that far from where i live actually, well sort of 1/2 hourish anyway. When are you going? 200g p/w is a nice tidy loss each week. And it does add up. I don't actually know what you are hoping to get down to. (in the end, not in this challenge). But 200g a week will get you there :) I think i mentioned it before, but i'm going away at easter and there will be people there who i haven't seen since i was in my early 20's. I desperatly don't want to go there and have them all whispering behind my back about how fat i've gotten. I was prob 75-80kg back then and thought i was so fat, lol! (I'm 5'9" healthy weight range 63-76) So i have the prize firmly in my sights at the moment. That is making losing much easier, i'm rolling in determination! I'm just a little worried about what will happen after the get together, hope i can keep going to get to my end goal, whatever that may be, and then stay there.... |
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| 4 weeks! That's a very long time. Did you win lotto or is it tax deductible? Linda |
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| Yes Bell it has gone very fast. Well done with the 900gms. Wish I could lose that in a week. I've lost 1.6kgs in 6 weeks so by that average I should lose 7.2kgs in all. I have some news...........Hubby and I are going to Nu Yu retreat just outside Sydney for 4 weeks! Woo Hoo! Marion |
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| Kazn sounds like you had a pretty awful time of it :( I wouldn't recomend vomiting 3 times a day either. I hope you're feeling a bit better now. Congratulations on your new record Bluez, well done! Marion you're on a roll you little devil you! I lost 900g this week, but i had to lose 400 of it twice, lol! Hate it when that happens :) We are 6 weeks into our 27 week challenge. Hasn't that gone fast! I think everyone is doing really well congratulations to you all :) |
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| Everyone is going so well. Keep up the good work girls Linda |
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| Another 200gms, they say slow and steady wins the race! LOL I'm now on 66.6..........spooky..... .hehehe Marion |
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| Amazingmum5 (114.9/99.9) (15/8.2)(6.8 to lose) Annie15754 (Annie) (122/99) (23/2.0) (21.0 to lose) April (buckskinremi) (114/90) (24 to lose) Baileyandjacksmum (125/100) (25 to lose) Bell (lizzardbell) (100.6/75) (25/16.1) (8.9 to lose) Bj (newbj) (113/90)(23/3) (20 to lose) Carol (cassandra_4ice) (78.5/65) (13.5 to lose) Cat (fluffy puppie) (105/99)(6/2)(4 to lose! Woohoo) Chris (cmm191056) (123/99) (24 to lose) Colleen (colleenxxmarie) (105/80) (25/10) (15 to lose) Columbia.magenta (147.7/125) (22.7/9.6)(13.1 to lose) Deb (bluezbandit) (92.9/75) (21.8/0.8) (17.9 to lose) Delia (delia4au) (106.5/86.5) (20/10.3) (9.8 to lose) Erina (erina_h) (106.4/80) (26.4/7.4) (19 to lose) G (gregparkerhill) (137.1/109) (28 to lose) Gem (gemgotband) (87.6/70) (14.5/1.5) (13 to lose) Jan (Ruby4redshoes) (74/68) (6 to lose) Jen (jenized) (82.5/68) (14.5/0.5) (14.0 to lose) Kathy (bluesdky_skyeblue) (117.7/98.7) (20/1)(19 to lose) Katie (kaytie.lou78@ymail.com) (139/114)(25/2) (23 to lose) Kaznbrood (90.9/70) (20.9/6.5) (14.4 to lose) Kerri (kerri_lalala) (123/99) (121.2/1.8) (22.2 to lose) kez (angledeeva) (110/85) (25/4.9) (20.1 to lose) Kylie (kyliem66) (123/99) (24/2.7) (21.3 to lose) Leah (leahskinnygirl) (140/112) (28 to lose) Linda (lindaev) (76.4/68) (8.4/1.8) (6.6 to lose) Losingitbigtime (114/86) (28/5) (23 to lose) Marion (i_got_there) (68/58) (10/1.4) (8.6 to lose) Marg ( teenagersmum) (84/69)(15/0) (15 to lose) Relle (ayd.relle) (101.1/81.1) 17.6kilo yo go Renae (rmb2310) (113/85) (28/5.1) (22.9 to lose) S (flutterbygirl77) (97.6/77)(20.6/5.1)(15.5 to lose) San (mylastresort_2lose) (82.2/65) (17.2/2.3) (14.9 to lose) Sarah (sarahbelperio) (113.6/85) (28.6/2.2) (26.4 to lose) Sonia (impish73) (134.5/115) (19.5/1.3) (18.2 to lose) Sue (sweetheart_f_40) (95/80) (15 to lose) Silva (silvaren77) (103/75) (28 to lose Toni (toniwest) (99/79) (20/2) (18 to lose) |
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| New personal best for me, broken under 93KG mark yay! Amazingmum5 (114.9/99.9) (15/8.2)(6.8 to lose) Annie15754 (Annie) (122/99) (23/2.0) (21.0 to lose) April (buckskinremi) (114/90) (24 to lose) Baileyandjacksmum (125/100) (25 to lose) Bell (lizzardbell) (100.6/75) (25/16.1) (8.9 to lose) Bj (newbj) (113/90)(23/3) (20 to lose) Carol (cassandra_4ice) (78.5/65) (13.5 to lose) Cat (fluffy puppie) (105/99)(6/2)(4 to lose! Woohoo) Chris (cmm191056) (123/99) (24 to lose) Colleen (colleenxxmarie) (105/80) (25/10) (15 to lose) Columbia.magenta (147.7/125) (22.7/9.6)(13.1 to lose) Deb (bluezbandit) (92.9/75) (21.8/0.8) (17.9 to lose) Delia (delia4au) (106.5/86.5) (20/10.3) (9.8 to lose) Erina (erina_h) (106.4/80) (26.4/7.4) (19 to lose) G (gregparkerhill) (137.1/109) (28 to lose) Gem (gemgotband) (87.6/70) (14.5/1.5) (13 to lose) Jan (Ruby4redshoes) (74/68) (6 to lose) Jen (jenized) (82.5/68) (14.5/0.5) (14.0 to lose) Kathy (bluesdky_skyeblue) (117.7/98.7) (20/1)(19 to lose) Katie (kaytie.lou78@ymail.com) (139/114)(25/2) (23 to lose) Kaznbrood (90.9/70) (20.9/6.5) (14.4 to lose) Kerri (kerri_lalala) (123/99) (121.2/1.8) (22.2 to lose) kez (angledeeva) (110/85) (25/4.9) (20.1 to lose) Kylie (kyliem66) (123/99) (24/2.7) (21.3 to lose) Leah (leahskinnygirl) (140/112) (28 to lose) Linda (lindaev) (76.4/68) (8.4/1.8) (6.6 to lose) Losingitbigtime (114/86) (28/5) (23 to lose) Marion (i_got_there) (68/58) (10/1.2) (8.8 to lose) Marg ( teenagersmum) (84/69)(15/0) (15 to lose) Relle (ayd.relle) (101.1/81.1) 17.6kilo yo go Renae (rmb2310) (113/85) (28/5.1) (22.9 to lose) S (flutterbygirl77) (97.6/77)(20.6/5.1)(15.5 to lose) San (mylastresort_2lose) (82.2/65) (17.2/2.3) (14.9 to lose) Sarah (sarahbelperio) (113.6/85) (28.6/2.2) (26.4 to lose) Sonia (impish73) (134.5/115) (19.5/1.3) (18.2 to lose) Sue (sweetheart_f_40) (95/80) (15 to lose) Silva (silvaren77) (103/75) (28 to lose Toni (toniwest) (99/79) (20/2) (18 to lose) |
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| Hmmm, a 900g loss this week, things have been awful this week, after a dreaded encounter with a stuck piece of sausage :( Basically i think i may have had some swelling and i could barely keep anything down this week, fluids and yoghurts etc but that was about it, so had some fill taken out on thursday afternoon, and since then have lost 500g so i assume my bad weight loss had been because my body had gone into starvation mode and was hanging onto every last morsel it kept down! Its so good to not be vomiting 3 times a day! |
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| Amazingmum5 (114.9/99.9) (15/8.2)(6.8 to lose) Annie15754 (Annie) (122/99) (23/2.0) (21.0 to lose) April (buckskinremi) (114/90) (24 to lose) Baileyandjacksmum (125/100) (25 to lose) Bell (lizzardbell) (100.6/75) (25/16.1) (8.9 to lose) Bj (newbj) (113/90)(23/3) (20 to lose) Carol (cassandra_4ice) (78.5/65) (13.5 to lose) Cat (fluffy puppie) (105/99)(6/2)(4 to lose! Woohoo) Chris (cmm191056) (123/99) (24 to lose) Colleen (colleenxxmarie) (105/80) (25/10) (15 to lose) Columbia.magenta (147.7/125) (22.7/9.6)(13.1 to lose) Deb (bluezbandit) (93.4/75) (20/0.7) (18.4 to lose) Delia (delia4au) (106.5/86.5) (20/10.3) (9.8 to lose) Erina (erina_h) (106.4/80) (26.4/7.4) (19 to lose) G (gregparkerhill) (137.1/109) (28 to lose) Gem (gemgotband) (87.6/70) (14.5/1.5) (13 to lose) Jan (Ruby4redshoes) (74/68) (6 to lose) Jen (jenized) (82.5/68) (14.5/0.5) (14.0 to lose) Kathy (bluesdky_skyeblue) (117.7/98.7) (20/1)(19 to lose) Katie (kaytie.lou78@ymail.com) (139/114)(25/2) (23 to lose) Kaznbrood (90.9/70) (20.9/6.5) (14.4 to lose) Kerri (kerri_lalala) (123/99) (121.2/1.8) (22.2 to lose) kez (angledeeva) (110/85) (25/4.9) (20.1 to lose) Kylie (kyliem66) (123/99) (24/2.7) (21.3 to lose) Leah (leahskinnygirl) (140/112) (28 to lose) Linda (lindaev) (76.4/68) (8.4/1.8) (6.6 to lose) Losingitbigtime (114/86) (28/5) (23 to lose) Marion (i_got_there) (68/58) (10/1.2) (8.8 to lose) Marg ( teenagersmum) (84/69)(15/0) (15 to lose) Relle (ayd.relle) (101.1/81.1) 17.6kilo yo go Renae (rmb2310) (113/85) (28/5.1) (22.9 to lose) S (flutterbygirl77) (97.6/77)(20.6/5.1)(15.5 to lose) San (mylastresort_2lose) (82.2/65) (17.2/2.3) (14.9 to lose) Sarah (sarahbelperio) (113.6/85) (28.6/2.2) (26.4 to lose) Sonia (impish73) (134.5/115) (19.5/1.3) (18.2 to lose) Sue (sweetheart_f_40) (95/80) (15 to lose) Silva (silvaren77) (103/75) (28 to lose Toni (toniwest) (99/79) (20/2) (18 to lose) |
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| Amazingmum5 (114.9/99.9) (15/8.2)(6.8 to lose) Annie15754 (Annie) (122/99) (23/2.0) (21.0 to lose) April (buckskinremi) (114/90) (24 to lose) Baileyandjacksmum (125/100) (25 to lose) Bell (lizzardbell) (100.6/75) (25/16.1) (8.9 to lose) Bj (newbj) (113/90)(23/3) (20 to lose) Carol (cassandra_4ice) (78.5/65) (13.5 to lose) Cat (fluffy puppie) (105/99)(6/2)(4 to lose! Woohoo) Chris (cmm191056) (123/99) (24 to lose) Colleen (colleenxxmarie) (105/80) (25/10) (15 to lose) Columbia.magenta (147.7/125) (22.7/9.6)(13.1 to lose) Deb (bluezbandit) (93.4/75) (20/0.7) (18.4 to lose) Delia (delia4au) (106.5/86.5) (20/10.3) (9.8 to lose) Erina (erina_h) (106.4/80) (26.4/7.4) (19 to lose) G (gregparkerhill) (137.1/109) (28 to lose) Gem (gemgotband) (87.6/70) (14.5/1.5) (13 to lose) Jan (Ruby4redshoes) (74/68) (6 to lose) Jen (jenized) (82.5/68) (14.5/0.5) (14.0 to lose) Kathy (bluesdky_skyeblue) (117.7/98.7) (20/1)(19 to lose) Katie (kaytie.lou78@ymail.com) (139/114)(25/2) (23 to lose) Kaznbrood (90.9/70) (20.9/5.6) (15.3 to lose) Kerri (kerri_lalala) (123/99) (121.2/1.8) (22.2 to lose) kez (angledeeva) (110/85) (25/4.9) (20.1 to lose) Kylie (kyliem66) (123/99) (24/2.7) (21.3 to lose) Leah (leahskinnygirl) (140/112) (28 to lose) Linda (lindaev) (76.4/68) (8.4/1.8) (6.6 to lose) Losingitbigtime (114/86) (28/5) (23 to lose) Marion (i_got_there) (68/58) (10/1.2) (8.8 to lose) Marg ( teenagersmum) (84/69)(15/0) (15 to lose) Relle (ayd.relle) (101.1/81.1) 17.6kilo yo go Renae (rmb2310) (113/85) (28/5.1) (22.9 to lose) S (flutterbygirl77) (97.6/77)(20.6/5.1)(15.5 to lose) San (mylastresort_2lose) (82.2/65) (17.2/2.3) (14.9 to lose) Sarah (sarahbelperio) (113.6/85) (28.6/2.2) (26.4 to lose) Sonia (impish73) (134.5/115) (19.5/1.3) (18.2 to lose) Sue (sweetheart_f_40) (95/80) (15 to lose) Silva (silvaren77) (103/75) (28 to lose Toni (toniwest) (99/79) (20/2) (18 to lose) |
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