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| there is clinic that was started by a man who was in your exact positon. Contact him. He is an amazing man. www.bade.com.au or check out his own personal site which is www.carcinoidwade.com.au he talks about his story and what he did. |
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| errection problem | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| i'm gay and i erections when i think about men i love | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| good one about most sex shop assistants being female and looking like they are aged around 12.... I don't think the owners understand that walking into a sexshop is awkward enough but having assistants of those type just make it worse... especially when you need advise on a certain product.... | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Having chemo and a lot of other medical stuff going on is what is causing your current problem - so trust that this may pass. Stress is perhaps another factor, especially if you are becoming increasingly anxious about the possibility of loosing your errection... which inevidably leads to it becoming a reality! I hear that you love your wife and want to be a good lover to her - so why not use this time to focus upon other creative ways of pleasuring her and you? There are some DVD's available on Tantric Sex that may give you some new inspirational ways to find of connecting sexually and emotionally that are not reliant upon you being able to constantly sustain an errection. Lovemaking is not just about bringing your penis into play, it is about connecting from the heart. You can be a magnificent lover to your wife if you are both willing to redefine your experience of making love, as you travel through this challenging time. You may infact learn, that not being able to sustain an erection for a while, was the best thing that ever happend to you! And on occassion, I am sure you CAN afford a little Viargra. Good loving to you both! |
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| I had your trouble a while back, and a friend told me a quick easy cure. Works a treat. Do some foreplay. (if you must) When she's ready, run off to the ensiute, look yourself sternly in the mirror and repeat as necessary; "She's not my wife, she's not my wife"...(repeater) until you show definate physical signs that you are a believer, at which time you rush back to the bed (don't actually run carrying one of those thingys , you may hit it on something) and complete the mission. Mission accomplished, problem solved. Glad I could be of help. |
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| To use Extagen is a practical advice. I take it sometimes - good stuff. Have forgotten about problems with getting up and with stamina. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| For me i tend to stay or go hard again and am ready to go again. It feels so strong and hard it hurts, it feels weird but good. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| I agree that it's useful to buy some things in sex shop and that you are not alone having such problem. But I think it's better to combine all methods and the first is good drugs of course. Extagen or some other good pills can help to make the large step. And things from sex shops can help pills to help you. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Have you tried rings which are available from sex shops. You won't die of embarrassment of you go and ask for them, if I can do it, you can too! I will warn you, all the shop assistants look 12 and are mostly female. If you just browse around you will find what I am talking about. There are soft rubber rings and also rubber ones with a bead attached to mack them more adjustable. Using a pump might improve your blood flow too. Available on line, as the rings may be too. A less awkward way to shop!! Persevere, and try different things. A friend of mine uses a piece of cloth tied around himself as a cheap effective treatment, never use anything longer than 30 minutes though or you could cause some damage to yourself. It is a very common problem and you are not alone. good luck! spin |
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| did you find anything that works? - would be great to have some feedback as to whether people get some results from others advice | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| over the years of closely following my body , food plays a role like bloatings in the stomach,constipation,into lerence to food. it took me 35 years to understand why i had bloatings after food milk was the cause so wen bloated my stomach occupied my mind the more flatter stomach & less food in there the outcome will improve just a idea to work with | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| show your wife in other wys how much you love her, I am sure she understands, as you recover your symptoms will alleviate, just don't stress yourself out as it could manifest psychologically.This is a good time for you both to be great communicators and being good friends. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| try goatweed it works for my hubby | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Chemo treatment does play its part in your predicament. Speak to your GP. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| love my wife to death but when we have sex it does not stay up for long and l have had alot of medical procedures and chemo treatment and vigra is dear to buy,can someone sugest some thing else that might work and what l could do because sex is important to both of us. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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