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| Budgirl.. there's nothing wrong with your partner if he enjoys a bit of porn. It's something that's in our blood. Think of it this way - What does it matter where he gets his appetite, so long as he still eats at home every night? For the guys that are looking for some great porn.. it doesn't get any better than this - girls broadcasting live on webcams from home - view and chat to them for FREE! www.asiangirlcams.org |
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| man take fastasy in viewing nude pictures of females. I would say it's an art. The human body is very interesting and what man can do to enjoy by seeing, touching, feeling and love making. Woman so be proud to be woman. |
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| Hmmm... I grew up in a dysfunctional family and was clueless when it came to women until I was in my 40's so, through no fault of my own, I did not have access to very much of the real thing. There are many men who, through no fault of their own, don't know how to get a woman and naturally turn to porn to get off. I do agree that it is an addiction too - and a hard one to get over. When I don't have a lover or girlfriend I still occasionally relapse. It doesn't so much objectify women as make men enjoy spectatoring sex - getting off on the visuals. It actually took me a while to get used to having different parts of my body stroked, licked and sucked (but well worth the effort :-) What is really needed is real sex education for guys so that we don't end up as clueless as I was. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Leo.bullterrier, I love your small but precise statement. Quote: This is one sick puppy, I'm a 45 year old horny Australian male and have no interest in saving any pics of naked women, I have the real thing at home anytime I desire. I know this is a true statement simply because my man was single for quite a while before he met me, and let me say that porn was his dear freind!!! LOL. But since I moved into his life, he has felt no need what so ever to look at porn of any kind. Men who feel that it is nessecary to watch porn, or read it, or what have you, need to look at wether or not they can live without it. H. |
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| My wife and I watch it together, a fair bit too. A healthy sexual relationship is a major factor in a healthy and happy relationship. If all your significant other is doing is watching porn behind your back, does that mean he thinks you are too fridget. Better him looking at porn than actually trying to satisfy his sexual needs at the hand of another woman. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Yeah, that'll solve ALL your marital problems.(This is sarcasm, for the less enlightened.) | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Start downloading male porn and then see how he likes it. Find the most gorgeous males who are well hung and ogle over them. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ....and...God bless them all!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ...and also....dare I say, there wouldn't be ANY porn, if women didn't disrobe and offer themselves to men as they do more so now on the internet!! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| It is accepted by mediacl and social bodies that men need sexual relief more often than women...I'm not saying that women don't need it, of course they do, but men are more easily aroused than women. The main benefit I can see porn providing, is a source of sexual relief for men in order to maintain their health. If a man doesn't have regular sex, be it intercourse or masturbation, there is every likelyhood of him contracting testicular cancer...not nice. Back in the old days...before internet, the porn mags abounded or old pics of naked women bought from arabs in Eygypt or art objects like the temples in India and Greece...hey porn is as ancient as the sex act itself and does not necessarily denigrate women. It is more likely to emphasize the beauty of womanhood, their treasures and their desires. |
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| important thing is he love u ? do u see him with other girls, if not, u can save. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Porn is just pictures of naked women. Every time he walks down the street he IMAGINES naked women, this is just a bit closer to the real thing(the nakedness not the women). Actually, in a strange way, be thankful he isn't seeing real naked women. I don't know what sort of pictures he's into but I find I'm always turned off by pure objectification and am more turned on by girls (this is going to sound stupid, but it's all about imagination) that I could have feelings for (there it did sound stupid, I know it's just a picture, thanks). In a way thsi actually increases my attraction to real women, or more my FEELINGS toward them. I'm not saying that it is GOOD for my relationship, I'm just saying it doens't HURT it. I am however a little concerned that after such a short time he started collecting them again. This speaks of a pretty major trust issue that you may want to resolve. |
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| This is one sick puppy, I'm a 45 year old horny Australian male and have no interest in saving any pics of naked women, I have the real thing at home anytime I desire. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Hi these days a lot of men look at porn pic or movies but if you talk to him about in the way where u would like to watch a blue movie together then you both should have great sex drive | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Hi budgirl0975, Having been involved with porn and the implications of it, I can do you a few things about it; 1) Porn is an addiction, the same is cigarettes or alcohol, the only difference is the more you look at it, the more hardcore if has to be for you to be turned on by it. 2) If anyone tries to say it doesn't affect their relationship they are kidding themselves. You are right in that after a while, I began to view women as sexual objects rather than human beings. It's impossible not to, so if anyone says it's a load of rubbish, it's like an addict saying they're not addicted. They just don't know it. 3) Porn ruins more relationships than what is actually publicised, it affects anyone, from church pastors, to 16 year old school kids. 4) Having not looked at porn for a year, I thought I had conquered it, only to find that no, you never do, it just sits in the background waiting for a weak moment to surface again and take over your life. 5) It is an addiction. The only way your husband will conquer it will be to seek counselling and be accountable to a close male friend who understands. |
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| wayne.carey18 ---- typical that you ended up in a thread talking about men & porn |
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| wariotoss i am not being rude but GO AND GET [F U CKED] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| From a guy's point of view I can tell you that looking at porn (and masturbating to it) often has little - if anything - to do with satisfaction or dissatisfaction with a partner. Most guys aren't stupid. They know that porn can not provide friendship, or companionship, or love, so you should not feel that you can somehow be replaced in his life by an image. Hopefully you have more confidence in yourself and in your relationship than that. And you are dead right he IS treating the woman in the image as an 'object' and rightly or wrongly that is what porn is all about. He isn't having a relationship with the woman in the image, his relationship is with you and looking at porn is not going to change that. If he started treating YOU like an object then you may have a problem. It is true that if sex is scarce for some reason at home a guy might 'supplement' his sex life with increased masturbation using porn as stimulation. From my point of view that is a much better option than him going out to 'play the field' in real life. Many people come to understand that their sexual needs and those of their partner may be different and accept that masturbation is a normal and healthy way to 'bridge the gap'. If you don't want masturbation to feature in your man's life - or you want his dependence on it to be reduced - I believe the onus falls back on BOTH of you to ensure that your sex life TOGETHER is fulfilling. The simple reality is that people need / want sexual release. I believe that masturbation is a normal and healthy way that people of BOTH sexes achieve that release even when they are in a relationship. By withholding sex because of his use of pornography you may actually be increasing his dependence on it not decreasing it. You are of course entitled to feel whatever it is that you feel about porn but I don't think you have anything to worry about. He sounds like a normal guy to me. |
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| Nothing wrong with porn. And besides, we all check people out and think i would love to do that. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| HI there.. Im going through the same problem now with my wife.Every time I download porn she will erase it while im at work.But at least Im honest to her if she ask me what im doing on the computer I tell her. She gets mad but at the end she gets over it..I also tell her that just because we now have a 9 months old baby it does not mean our sex life has to change.We use to do it every where and any where at least 5 to 6 times in a week and now its a miracle to get once a week. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| my husband has hundreds of saved porn pics of girls. Porn is no big deal to me, but when I found all of these files of nude pics, it really hurt. I have talked to him about it and told him it makes me feel that I'm an object to him, being that is how he seems to view women. He said he would delete some, which he did, and had some saved which was fine. I left it alone for about a month, then went and checked being I had a gut feeling and sure enough he's added more again. I need a guys view on it. I will admit my sex drive is very low, but the excess of porn makes me want sex with him even less. What should I do. We fight about it, and I don't want to fight anymore, but I feel disrespected. |
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