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| @ lissybird77 and others Wah Wah Wah looking after the kids so hard boo hoo Your choice to breed and have kids and you chose him as your partner you stupid cows so shut up and stop whining, maybe your partners looks at porn because it's to escape from you, his time out or maybe you are dead dog ugly and feels obligated to stay in the relationship because of the kids ( he's just as responsible for childcare as she is )or you may simply bore him. It's always his fault (typical) look at yourselves you stupid women maybe he's not to blame (always). It's time for women to stop passing the blame and start taking responsibility for yourselves. END... |
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| LOl your wife sounds like me.. I too have a baby and hubby likes his porn, I also delete it!! Why look at it when you have a wife?? If men can spend time looking at other women naked, maybe they need to invest that time into their wife... or looking after the child a bit more so she can have time to herself to relax and then she might be in the mood more... believe me, little ones are time consuming, hard work and u tire easily when your the only one looking after them. i work and have my 7mth old, i agree more sex would be good, but my man watching other naked women just makes me not want to put out at all!! |
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| By: budgirl0975 27/02/2008 2:39 pm I need a guys view on it. I will admit my sex drive is very low, but the excess of porn makes me want sex with him even less. What should I do. We fight about it, and I don't want to fight anymore, but I feel disrespected. ......................... . ok this is a good one lol, men will look at porn whether it is only for a short time or longer time fact of life the female body drives us, this is breaking it down to the core. sometime in a mans life he will view porn now why would you think he looks at porn {and only seeing it is pics}?? as you said you have a low sex drive and this is i would think is why he looks at porn. have you thought that if you increased the love making he might take his eye's off porn and on to you? the internet is full of porn free and pay sites they say over 70% of internet is taken up with porn so it easy to view, and fighting about it will only make it worse. as i said try increasing your sex drive and get him to give you more foreplay time for both, tell him what you want and what you dislike and try to meet a common ground. i feel only fighting about it viewing it on the net will make him do it more. i myself view naked women pics from time to time and my wife doesn't have a problem with it and we both have a good sex drive. If he is getting enough sex he wouldn't be looking at girls all the time, but if he was a man and saw this was upsetting for you he should respect your views and stop, if my wife said it offends her by me viewing porn i would stop. |
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| Has anyone here not heard of the words .. SELF MASTERY and SELF DENIAL? No wonder we live in such a greedy 'effin world where everyone puts their own needs not just above other peoples, but above the needs of their own loved ones. Excuses, excuses, excuses. Lots of things make us feel good, but do we indulge in all of them, and what would happen to our relationships and society if we did? Grow the hell up guys. Boobs are just boobs and *** s are just *** s. Sex is great fun, sex stimulates intimacy but by god it's only one aspect of a human's life. Men really are the biggest babies sometimes, "oh my wife won't have sex with me tonight because she's tired from raising my three screaming brats all day, poor me, life is so harrrrd, I need sex, I'm going to diiee without sex - boo hoo, someone bring out the world's smallest violin. Has it ever occurred to some of you men that if your woman is OK with it that's fine, but if she isn't, why should she lower her standards and higher values to yours? Especially when her values center around respect for women in general, which means treating women as beings with emotions and not just viewing them as objects to heap attention no one else wants on. (OH and I'm ****** off with the stupid women who make these movies too and contribute to the objectification of women.) I see no compromise here, only "we do it, get over it," which shows just how entitled and selfish you are. All relationships are based on compromise and any good relationship works because the two people in them learn how to put their own needs second to that of those they love. God I'm sick of this selfish, capitalist, me me me world. Our society is in self-destruct mode. |
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| man take fastasy in viewing nude pictures of females. I would say it's an art. The human body is very interesting and what man can do to enjoy by seeing, touching, feeling and love making. Woman so be proud to be woman. |
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| Hmmm... I grew up in a dysfunctional family and was clueless when it came to women until I was in my 40's so, through no fault of my own, I did not have access to very much of the real thing. There are many men who, through no fault of their own, don't know how to get a woman and naturally turn to porn to get off. I do agree that it is an addiction too - and a hard one to get over. When I don't have a lover or girlfriend I still occasionally relapse. It doesn't so much objectify women as make men enjoy spectatoring sex - getting off on the visuals. It actually took me a while to get used to having different parts of my body stroked, licked and sucked (but well worth the effort :-) What is really needed is real sex education for guys so that we don't end up as clueless as I was. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Leo.bullterrier, I love your small but precise statement. Quote: This is one sick puppy, I'm a 45 year old horny Australian male and have no interest in saving any pics of naked women, I have the real thing at home anytime I desire. I know this is a true statement simply because my man was single for quite a while before he met me, and let me say that porn was his dear freind!!! LOL. But since I moved into his life, he has felt no need what so ever to look at porn of any kind. Men who feel that it is nessecary to watch porn, or read it, or what have you, need to look at wether or not they can live without it. H. |
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| My wife and I watch it together, a fair bit too. A healthy sexual relationship is a major factor in a healthy and happy relationship. If all your significant other is doing is watching porn behind your back, does that mean he thinks you are too fridget. Better him looking at porn than actually trying to satisfy his sexual needs at the hand of another woman. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Yeah, that'll solve ALL your marital problems.(This is sarcasm, for the less enlightened.) | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Start downloading male porn and then see how he likes it. Find the most gorgeous males who are well hung and ogle over them. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ....and...God bless them all!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ...and also....dare I say, there wouldn't be ANY porn, if women didn't disrobe and offer themselves to men as they do more so now on the internet!! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| It is accepted by mediacl and social bodies that men need sexual relief more often than women...I'm not saying that women don't need it, of course they do, but men are more easily aroused than women. The main benefit I can see porn providing, is a source of sexual relief for men in order to maintain their health. If a man doesn't have regular sex, be it intercourse or masturbation, there is every likelyhood of him contracting testicular cancer...not nice. Back in the old days...before internet, the porn mags abounded or old pics of naked women bought from arabs in Eygypt or art objects like the temples in India and Greece...hey porn is as ancient as the sex act itself and does not necessarily denigrate women. It is more likely to emphasize the beauty of womanhood, their treasures and their desires. |
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| important thing is he love u ? do u see him with other girls, if not, u can save. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Porn is just pictures of naked women. Every time he walks down the street he IMAGINES naked women, this is just a bit closer to the real thing(the nakedness not the women). Actually, in a strange way, be thankful he isn't seeing real naked women. I don't know what sort of pictures he's into but I find I'm always turned off by pure objectification and am more turned on by girls (this is going to sound stupid, but it's all about imagination) that I could have feelings for (there it did sound stupid, I know it's just a picture, thanks). In a way thsi actually increases my attraction to real women, or more my FEELINGS toward them. I'm not saying that it is GOOD for my relationship, I'm just saying it doens't HURT it. I am however a little concerned that after such a short time he started collecting them again. This speaks of a pretty major trust issue that you may want to resolve. |
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| This is one sick puppy, I'm a 45 year old horny Australian male and have no interest in saving any pics of naked women, I have the real thing at home anytime I desire. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Hi these days a lot of men look at porn pic or movies but if you talk to him about in the way where u would like to watch a blue movie together then you both should have great sex drive | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Hi budgirl0975, Having been involved with porn and the implications of it, I can do you a few things about it; 1) Porn is an addiction, the same is cigarettes or alcohol, the only difference is the more you look at it, the more hardcore if has to be for you to be turned on by it. 2) If anyone tries to say it doesn't affect their relationship they are kidding themselves. You are right in that after a while, I began to view women as sexual objects rather than human beings. It's impossible not to, so if anyone says it's a load of rubbish, it's like an addict saying they're not addicted. They just don't know it. 3) Porn ruins more relationships than what is actually publicised, it affects anyone, from church pastors, to 16 year old school kids. 4) Having not looked at porn for a year, I thought I had conquered it, only to find that no, you never do, it just sits in the background waiting for a weak moment to surface again and take over your life. 5) It is an addiction. The only way your husband will conquer it will be to seek counselling and be accountable to a close male friend who understands. |
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| wayne.carey18 ---- typical that you ended up in a thread talking about men & porn |
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| wariotoss i am not being rude but GO AND GET [F U CKED] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| From a guy's point of view I can tell you that looking at porn (and masturbating to it) often has little - if anything - to do with satisfaction or dissatisfaction with a partner. Most guys aren't stupid. They know that porn can not provide friendship, or companionship, or love, so you should not feel that you can somehow be replaced in his life by an image. Hopefully you have more confidence in yourself and in your relationship than that. And you are dead right he IS treating the woman in the image as an 'object' and rightly or wrongly that is what porn is all about. He isn't having a relationship with the woman in the image, his relationship is with you and looking at porn is not going to change that. If he started treating YOU like an object then you may have a problem. It is true that if sex is scarce for some reason at home a guy might 'supplement' his sex life with increased masturbation using porn as stimulation. From my point of view that is a much better option than him going out to 'play the field' in real life. Many people come to understand that their sexual needs and those of their partner may be different and accept that masturbation is a normal and healthy way to 'bridge the gap'. If you don't want masturbation to feature in your man's life - or you want his dependence on it to be reduced - I believe the onus falls back on BOTH of you to ensure that your sex life TOGETHER is fulfilling. The simple reality is that people need / want sexual release. I believe that masturbation is a normal and healthy way that people of BOTH sexes achieve that release even when they are in a relationship. By withholding sex because of his use of pornography you may actually be increasing his dependence on it not decreasing it. You are of course entitled to feel whatever it is that you feel about porn but I don't think you have anything to worry about. He sounds like a normal guy to me. |
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