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| okay to say it's because it's drinking thats not interaly true my hubby wets the bed after him and his parents get in fights over what they want him to say to me and instead of telling me what they say he keeps it to himself. Stress can also playa key role in all this tooo! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| you are a great girl, looking after your bloke, i have the same problem, im 32 and am to scared to hook up with a girl | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| My partner has had a bed wetting problem from childhood. I have been with him for 10 years and it becomes a more noticeable problem if he has had a few drinks. Just because someone wets the bed, may have been drinking, doesn't make these men abusive horrible people. Believe me, my brother was an alcoholic, I know what it's like to live with one and to my knowledge he never wet the bed. Urinated in closets, pantries and everywhere but the loo when intoxicated. Loser, you may think, but he's my brother, I love him so my mother and I went to Al-anon (for families of alcoholics) to learn to deal with his problem. It's easy for so called do gooders to have a chop, but guess what, I'm not prepared to walk out and give up on the people I love. Do you know 1 in 100 adult men have bed wetting problems (Surprised) but it is a fact. As a Librarian I have done much research on the topic and believe me, my partner and I have been to the doctor on 6-7 occasions about the problem, believe me when I say there is no quick fix. Men often create excess urine at night, nobody knows why. These men often urinate frequently during the day also, and have problems holding on for lengthy periods. Weak Bladder. My partner hates the fact that he has this problem, and all the degradation under the sun is not going to help him. He copped enough from his father over the problem when he was younger, because nobody took the time out to consult a physician. Understanding, compassion and the right approach is imperative to begin to address and discuss the problem which to the perpetrator is embarrassing and confusing. Off course use waterproof mattress protectors to save your bedding, It's certainly better than having to try and air/dry them out. Narrow minded thinking like some of the comments on this site are really disappointing. Good on those who have stuck by their loved ones. They need love and understanding not distain and ridicule. Good luck. |
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| I think that the message you posted is extremely selfish. How could you call your fiance "***y pants" and feel like you are doing a favour. It appears that it only happens when he drinks. If that is the case, all it takes is a trip to the GP to discuss a remedy. You can get a tablet to take after drinking, before going to be. To turn your points around, if YOU love and cherish him, you will assist and encourage your fiance, not put him down. |
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| Hi, I dont know about your problem in particular but i do know that when children/teens wet the bed 90% of the time its stress (1st hand experiance) 4% hereditory 6% the body doesnt give them the 'uh-oh' or 'wake up call' when they need to go. Hope this helps others out there |
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| I have been married with a 49 yo women and when drinks heavily she wets the bed. she has done this all his drinking life. she admits he is a acoholic but will not do anything about it. I need advice on how to fix this issue asap as I am desperate for almost any solution. I have told Her how I feel about her wetting the bed and shedoesn't seem to worried about it. Now she sleeps on the couch most of the time, and I often find her sleep with pee all over the floor. I got up one night and our dog was lapping up the pee. So you see, my story is just like the lady with the 49 year old guy who get drunk and pees in bed or any where they pass out. A matter of fact, I copied and past the ladies article, i just change the he to she. Is she a pig also, We have kids,I won't leave them with her and,I can't kick her out, Everyone in her family thinks I am a bad man, Yes I swear, and act a fool sometime because of this, I think she and her family hold some deep dark secret that cause this kind of behavior in her. Question? Is she a pig to ladies. |
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| TO ALL THOSE WOMEN WITH BED-WETTING ALCOHOLICS: The best advice you can be given is to seek help for yourself. You need to understand why you remain with a man who is an addict and is totally lacking in concern and respect for your feelings. I need to ask why you are putting down plastic sheets to ENABLE him to CONTINUE treating your bed like a urinal? He has no reason to change. You seem to accept living this way, why would he need to change? He is the only one who can make a desision to get help for his problems with abusing alcohol and that will never happen whilst you continue to accept living with the consequences (and I guess there are many more than just the bed-wetting!) It is time you perhaps asked what you need to give you the strength to put an end to living in this abusive situation? If he can't/won't change, then something in YOU must change... and I understand that probably feels very difficult or else you wouldn't still be there. Call AA and ask about support that is there for partners of alcoholics. Or make an appointment with your doctor and find out what free counselling may be available for YOU. |
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| You may check this site .... http://bed-wetting-adult.blogspot.com it may help. |
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| My boyfriend is 21 years old. He wets the bed, but never drinks..He's so embarassed the he REFUSES to go to the doctor about it..any ideas on how I could help him without embarassing him? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| No silly! She got married three years before she was born! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| This is for all you ladies out there with this problem with their men. I understand how you feel. My fiance and I live togather and he was, as I can now say an alcoholic. He would *** the bed occasionally after drinking too heavily. He did this five times in the last year and a half we've lived togather. The last time was eight months ago. He not only peeed the bed, he would sleep next to me so I would wake up totally soaking wet. I told him from now on, he was going to sleep on the floor, and if he peeed the bed again, I would be sleeping on the couch whenever he drank. But I approached this in a light hearted mood. I didn't scream or yell at him about it, as a matter of fact, I privately from time to time would call him " *** y Pants" in a jokingly manner, He did apologize and finally after the fifth incident he quit drinking, totally. I would say, to approach them in a light mood, don't be too dramatic, but make your point. If the man really loves you and loves and cherishes what he has with you, then he will do whatever it takes to make your lives togather as a couple, a happy one. If he refuses any of this. Leave now, because your wasting your time. He DOES NOT love you, only the alcohol. When we as people truly love, we will sacrafice ANYTHING for that love. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| DARLING FEMOZZIE PLEASE WAKE UP TO YOURSELF, I LEFT MY GOOD HUSBAND TO BE WITH AN ALCOHOLIC IT LASTED 12 MTHS BEFORE HE MADE ME ON TOO. IM A CARER IN A NURSING HOME AND BELEIVE ME ITS ENOUGH TO PUT UP WITH WEN U GROW OLD. DONT GO INTO IT NOW. GET OUT DARLING PLEEEEEESE. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| oh gee,, I just realised how old this message is. hahaha | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| gee showyalcard, you were married at age 5? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| eeeeeew I wouldn't tolerate this. Perhaps you should consider alternative accommodation - for one of you. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Bed wettin at any age may be due to Iron deficiency and/or zinc deficiency. Iron Amino Chelate or Iron Phosp[ahate are best. For zinc a taste test is manadatory to establish the type (liquid,powder of tablets) best for amount of deficiency. Pumpkin Seed oil may also benefit. However, in the alcoholic we usually have gross maldigestion, malabsorption and consequent cellular malnutrition. One cannot rule out chronic cystitis either in which case it is most often the Echoli bacteria and this responds best to Cranberry juice, at least two glasses daily. Finally in the case of acoholism [it] is often a result of a lack of protein food at least three times a day, with an addition of protein snacks between meals as well as lots of low glycemic vegies. Most alcoholics were sugarholics when younger but you do not go around as an adult with a bag of lollies, when you can get it from grog, which is another form of sugar. Finally in this case he needs to take responsibility for his won destiny. It is also common for a woman to marry an alcoholic because her father was likewise. Perhaps you need to consider counselling for your codependency? |
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| that was very rude. You know nothing about this woman so what gives you the right to judge her? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Femozzie, Look up your local white pages and find the local A.A office.Ask them to send you out some literature.For around $20 you can also buy the A.A bigbook.Give them to your partner and try and plant a seed.If it doesnt work then you will never change him.You be as well trying to own the sun and moon as trying to change another person. Its astonishing the amount of people out there (male and female)who refuse to accept they cannot drink alcohol in any shape or form,some continue to the gates of insanity and death.Do what you have to do dear,the smell of bacon and eggs in the morning sure beats the smell of putrid pish. |
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| I know exactly what you are going through. My boyfriend is 32 and does this about once a month due to excessive drinking. The first time it happened I thought it was a one time thing so I didn't make a big deal about it, but now it has become clear that I was very wrong. I love him and can't see myself leaving him over it, but I don't know how to approach him about how much it bothers me because I have let it slide in the past. How can I make him understand that this is a real problem that needs to be dealt with? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| if he can stop drinking put him in a diaper and let him pee anl let him sit in it or let him wet the bed and sit in it and see if he likes the rash he winds up with | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| To zyzemep, could u tell me the name of the device &can i purchase it at any chemist thank u. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| please visit www.naturalremedies1.com as information there will help. All drugs are poison, and there is no need to take them. Inositol vitamin bh, is a natural calmative and it works a treat. Bedwetting is often caused by anxiety and this can be cured naturally. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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